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More couples are shacking up before tying the knot than ever. As of18 million unmarried adults were living with a partner—up a is tickling flirting 29 percent since And more than half of these cohabiters are under the age of 35, a.

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But just because moving in with your beau seems like the "trendy" thing to do, that doesn't mean it's right for you. Before you go ahead and sign that lease or take out that mortgage, you have to get real with your partner about your expectations and your finances.

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Here Glamour has compiled all d the conversations you should have and milestones to hit with your significant other before you order the U-Haul. Who doesn't love browsing local real estate, drooling over your dream home?

But when it comes time to find new digs—especially with your partner—you have to burst the fantasy bubble. Before you start going to open houses, it's important to have an honest conversation ib your price range, and how much you're willing to spend on rent or a mortgage.

It's the only way to manage your partner's expectations.

Sure, moving in together knocks one rent out of the equation and condenses two sets of utility bills, but the end of your lease doesn't automatically equal move-in time. Jessica Massa, author of The Gaggle: Are you spending four or five nights a week together?

Good, says Amy Laurent, 8 Togeter to Mmoving Chances are you're not making asian spa in knoxville tn exact same salary as your partner. So how does that impact how you'll pay rent?

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While that's important to figure out, as Kathleen Burns Kingsbury, the author of Breaking Money Silence told The Cutit doesn't need to be set in stone. Laurent says the intensive time of taking a vacation as a couple is like a mini living-together opportunity. Her test: Have you gone away for a week or two and spent percent of the time together—and actually enjoyed it? If not, try it before you take the plunge.

So you've got your rent situation down, but what about utilities? Maybe your partner takes much longer showers, or sleeps with the television on—racking up large water and electric bills. Or you have totally different tastes in food and what you'd like to stock the fridge.

Before this causes a fight, come up with a game plan for how you'll divvy up expenses. According to Brides. If you feel pressure to move in from anyone your parents, your friends, your partner—even yourselfyou may not be ready. datr

She suggests finding an alternative, such as waiting a year or compromising by moving closer to each. There's a lot you might not know about your partner. Do they have student loans?

Credit card debt? Bad spending habits? While these things might seem personal, when you're living together and splitting costs, they can affect your financial standing as well—so it's important to put them out in the open.

Remember the fight you thought was going to end your relationship?

Turns out the fact that you and your partner successfully survived the Big Blowout of makes you more ready to share a place. Laurent says knowing how to recover from a huge disagreement mature club sex essential for a couple to take the next step: Money is one of the last great taboos.

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But when you're living with someone and sharing the cost of living with them, it's important to get into the habit of discussing your finances.

Try casually working it into your dinner table conversation, or folding the "money talk" into your regular weightier discussions. The time mving spending together already can be a good barometer for whether you're ready to share space permanently.

How long do you date before moving in together

Massa says to look at the conflicts you and your partner have: Are the same issues coming up? If they are and no one is working on them, that's a bad sign.

Laurent says the biggest mistake couples make before moving in together is not talking about what moving in together actually means. What's the next step?

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Why are we now taking the time to move in together? Unfortunately, not all relationships stand the test of the time. But if you break up, that doesn't mean your finances also have to take a hit. When you move in together, dwte up front about what will happen if things don't work.

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Maybe one of you will stay in the house, or you'll put money aside in case you need to break the lease. It's not romantic, but it's important. Courtesy Everett Collection.

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